Build a lover - must read.

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Hello, this is Admin Baekhyun. This announcement is a must read. 
 
Today I received multiple complaints about a few people who made others uncomfortable by being misandristic and heterophobic. 
 
This roleplay used to be a only place and I understand if some of you are unhappy that we now accept all orientations. But this is not a reason to hate on straight people or making comments when a female and male flirt in chats. In the RATED ic chat ual rping is allowed. If you're not comfortable with that, just leave the chat if you see any ual content. Unless it includes triggering subjects then make sure you express that you're uncomfortable with it and PM the admins if it keeps going. 
 
Regarding the hatred on genders, this is obviously not acceptable. Making jokes is tolerated once or twice but openly hating on people because of their gender will not be allowed. If your characters are wary of one gender because of trauma(for example) , it does not give you an excuse to make hateful comments in ic chats, or anywhere that isn't plotted beforehand. 
 
If anyone sees such behaviour, please PM any of the admins with screenshots or copy/paste of texts. 
 
All such cases will be discussed by the admin team and together they will decide on what sanctions to be given, the worst being removal from the rp. 
 
Thank you. 

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Kaworu 2 years ago
Maybe things escalated and I missed it, but from what I've seen around I don't agree with the announcement. As a straight person I don't even think heterophobia is a thing. Bowrair has a good point too. Still, the issue doesn't have anything to do with me or my characters so noted ig
schnuggldiwuppdich 2 years ago
yessir daddy sir !
DiabloEaterMfkr 2 years ago
Seems I missed some stuff huh? But yes noted I'm glad u could address something like this.
cloudangelheartsuju 2 years ago
noted on the announcement
Bowrair 2 years ago
Your quote-
“If your characters are wary of one gender because of trauma(for example) , it does not give you an excuse to make hateful comments in ic chats, or anywhere that isn't plotted beforehand.”

I agree with everything but this last part of “plotted beforehand”- er usually. The idea of censorship doesn’t appeal to me in general. Homophobic or heterophobic I like to explore all aspects of a rp. Both the positive and the negative. Plotting everything is just not always that exciting. Sometimes the best rps for me happen from winging. I do try to comment in ooc to not take it to heart when I spring the angst on. That being said, I don’t like when another abuses the idea of ic for clearly ooc issues in conflict. It’s not right regardless who is doing it.

So coming to the situation at hand: I might not like that idea of avoiding rping unplotted drama in general but I haven’t been here long enough to know if abusing ic is a problem here. So if you truly do think it’s such a big issue in this rp- like you’ve /seen/ people use this Ic thing to spread hate, then until this becomes less of a problem, I will at least agree that temporary censorship in rping is valid. But that’s all I can agree with from my side as someone who likes winging angst rps.

Luckily, this hoseok does not have any of that angst but I hope you remember version 1 hoseok- the chara that would have clashed with this new rule? : ) but yeah, if this doesn’t fly with you, tell me and I can leave
5dd32de06d97b3ae2904 2 years ago
Thank you.
5282dd90923db5a0bec4 2 years ago
Yep got it ♡
babydiino 2 years ago
Yeeeeaaaaaaahhhhhhh, got it
proudshikshin1 2 years ago
Understood and thank you
Taeminsbestie 2 years ago
Thank you o/
SoftBoiHours 2 years ago
Understood, thank you
Xoxoxangel 2 years ago
Yes understood
cupcakegalaxy 2 years ago
ing thank you.
ItadoriYuji 2 years ago
Period
gemini_dotcom 2 years ago
thank you announcing this.
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