just how to be considered as face chase tbh - tell me? ¿

Biasness and face chasing are two different things. You could be biased towards someone you prefer talking to other than your irl bias, or towards your friends. Face chasing is actually trying to get your bias' attention on the specific. Trying to get rid of the habit of face chasing is easy, but being biased towards people you enjoy talking to isn't.
Then there's the flirting. Flirting with more than a single person makes someone always look bad. I know you're a good person and don't have any intention of hurting someone, but keep it on the down low. People who stick in their noses into something which is not their business are annoying af. Especially stalkers or other face chasers.
If you're solely biased towards people you enjoy talking to (those who actually rp), it's not your fault for being this picky because those who mainly crack, text, one line or are dry repliers are the ones who are supposed to step up their game. Roleplaying means to get into a role and playing it out, not letting the you irl show up out of nowhere.
It heavily depends on both parties. If you decide that someone isn't good enough your time for specific reasons it's alright to be biased as long as it doesn't turn into face chasing.

i guess flirting with all the visual people of an rp would make you seem like a face chaser. plus deeper than that, you're leading a potential love interest on. i guess people get jealous when they see a character getting a harem. like, hogging their irl bias.

which i think that's what it's really about. you gotta stop going in rps as yourself. you're going in as the idol you're playing. which a lot of people on this site have forgotten because we all now chat like we are ourselves with just a face claim. when you enter rps with a face claim but you're just going to act like yourself, of course you're going to gravitate to your bias and without knowing, probably try and date them because that's what ya want in real life. lol

it's happened to me before, but honestly - i don't even have biases in kpop anymore, so i don't chase people. i let them chase me~

it's different for everyone. for example, I'm not a chat person. I do appear but not much. and I openly admit I only rp with those who actually reply me with something good. a lot of factors decides what and how I'm doing.

so given your situation, may be you should ask them what's bothering them? as long as you interact with others, I don't see why you can't pursue the one you want romantically??

as long as you're not like those people who only talk to their possible romantic interests, you're good. people often tend to forget that rping is also about friendship sometimes. imo, complete not face chasing/user chasing, means holding a similar conversation with everyone and giving them the same kind and amount of attention. is it possible? nope. we can lessen it to some degree, and if you talk to everyone who approahes you or anyone you come across then no, you're NOT guilty in this case. u w u

as long as you’re talking to everyone then you’re fine, girl. don’t sweat it. : )

maybe he’s jelly idk

Like anti said, we all face-chase a little. I personally don't give a fart if someone clings to others in an rp because of their face or username. It only becomes a little weird to me if you disappear and never talk to anyone but that person. Especially as an admin. Because then you might as well just go in a private rp. As long as you're still using rooms as you want and overall participating with others, there isn't a problem with it to me. But idk everyone defines, tolerates, and handles face-chasing differently. orz

we all face chase a little, but if you say you love someone/automatically gravitate towards someone before they apply just based on the character they are playing, you're a facechaser
essentially, if you flirt with someone based on nothing but their character choice, people will think that