Callout Blog @ Fam/RPR,,, Like This Needs to Stop

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AuthorVivaldi
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Rhetorical question but--- Guys honestly, why are we like this??? Why are we such at taking care of each other as writers? I mean consistently neglecting everyone's needs but our own??

Why the do we all whine about wanting to rp but never make moves unless a "bae" is involved? We post and repost in plotting and ooc rooms like "hmu to rp" instead of tagging each other. We look at one or two groups chatting it up and complain about feeling unwelcome,,,,, while our characters are standing next to 76346633 other lonely people. 

Why the do we waste each other's time by letting one another make starters we're gonna abandon???

 

Fam.

 

My friends, specifically (in a generalized blog because at least 6 of you have done this to me in like,,, the past 2 weeks alone orz and it's whatever but)

 

I'm sorry but , guys. I literally have a list of people to never rp with (again) and half of you are on it. 

Stop @-ing me like "ive always wanted to rp with you" only to leave my starters hanging. As if any of us here??? Have time??

Stop plotting or romances with me (both of which I hate planning out anyway) just to drop my character for a chatroom honey. Like I'll just be here waiting for your next available character,,,,

Stop hyping up things and people you don't believe in just because you wanna belong.

Stop abandoning my one paragraph to go for bae's novella. Responding to me once a month and giving them 8743673 every week um? Okay cool, last I checked, this place is about more than literature .

Why are we so inconsiderate to everyone but ourselves??? Why can we so easily demand or ask for what we want (time, attention, affection, etc) but can't give it?

My characters are NOT body pillows. They aren't toys to play with til bae gets there. (What's so ing wrong with platonic interactions anymore???) They aren't chatroom trophies. Don't treat them like one because I'm not looking to do the same to yours.

Why can't we just communicate? "I'm confused about what happened in this paragraph." "I don't think my character would work for situations like this." "I don't know if I like this kind of scenario. Can we try something else?" "I'm literally looking for validation with written and chatroom attention, sorry but I'm not interested in actually rping with you."

It's easy orz

Guys please be ing kinder to each other.

None of us have time, jesus. Let's stop wasting each other's. 

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-hoe 6 years ago
okay but i don't reply to everybody simultaneously okay u n u
-hoe 6 years ago
rts
venture 6 years ago
war flashbacks to every starter i've written that's sitting stale as with no replies in rps that have been dead for months now

But anyway I have no motivation this time of year so I don't ask anyone to rp
PLEASE I BEG OF YOU
ANYONE READING THIS
AVOID ME
c4a45c15a32d6fba7637 6 years ago
Literally though, what a mood.
espiaI 6 years ago
this is the most relatable blog i think i've ever seen
also sorry if i ever disappointed you or anything
melozennie 6 years ago
i always want to talk about this, but i never do. thank you.
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sonathea 6 years ago
ty for addressing the obvious problems of this site ;; not sure if it'll recover for the better because its not easy for people to change their ways

honestly there is this new rp I joined because it was the au dream concept I've loved to rp in and got a big muse for it but it was dumbed down to multiple people discussing they want to a certain character because the faceclaim is hot like wtf.
xicewolf 6 years ago
THIS OH MY GOSH
Finally ^^"
sunshinesmile 6 years ago
Preach ok but
If I ever left you hanging why didn't you kick my ahalakshdkf I can't remember the last time we've written together...

But seriously your words are the hot truth.
henggarae 6 years ago
Okaysoihonestlylostwhatroomdonghanandtaehyungwererpingin
But this is such a mood. Idk how many PMs I’ve sent that have gone unanswered by people who’ve complained that they aren’t getting attention.
prompto 6 years ago
is it me ;;
chrysopos 6 years ago
This is all such a mood orz
Plotting out something amazing only to
hibernate 6 years ago
far more than a modicum of truth; I particularly enjoy literature — best line; but it’s rpr, to except more is to be sorely disappointed at one turn or another.
grandemint 6 years ago
wow

thank you so much for this
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