hellur i stranger
but it doesnt matter whether or not the person doesnt listen over and over again. i feel like its valid to always care and be nice bc negativity is never gonna get you anywhere. but also do not be a pushover. if you feel like things are going in one ear out the other, you don’t have to tell them more than twice — AND EVEN ONCE REALLY. because you gotta understand that if they do not listen the first time, mostlikely they wont listen again. life is about trial and error. we cannot always look out for people and whatever you tell them will oneday sink in. most people will never listen to you bc they havent experienced it themselves yet. sometimes, it just takes a little pain to push them to understand. but still be there whenever they need moral support. when they ask you what they should do, it’s time to put your foot down and tell them they need to figure it out. yourself and your happiness should come first as long as it’s not about materialistic greediness. if you’re tired and frustrated about repeating, you should just stop. i hope i don’t sound aggressive and if i do, i apologize.
when your perspective on the person and/or situation changes. as bambii said, when you find yourself repeating things over and over and ppl don’t listen
but I do think there is no such thing as a ‘good time’ bcs it kind of just /happens/. You just find yourself not caring anymore and have no comment for it, or me at least, that’s what happened
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