COMMON COURTESY IN RP-ING

I need to say this out loud pls it has been bugging me for a while now, I can't believe people are still being like this.

1. Pls pls to never suddenly go MIA when you are discussing a plot with someone??? Like, if you find the person boring enough, pls tell them that you're backing out from the plotting. You asked for it, you wanted to rp then suddenly you went MIA??? and even started a plot with someone else?? What does that makes the other person feel? Terrible ofc.

2. Rp-ing takes two to work. Or sometimes more than that. But never one. You roleplayed with someone, you forgot to reply, they poked you. Fine. But then you forgot about it again??? Like, most of us (idk you all but me) doesn't like to poke because I KNOW everyone finds it annoying. Or it's tiring to poke only to get "i'm busy with work/life etc and will reply tonight" excuses EVERY SINGLE TIME. I will never poke. You forgot? Then fine. It's not my sole responsibility to remind you all the time. You need to take note of that as well.

3. Short and sweet. Get bored? Lost your muse? Tell them. Dont leave them hanging.

4. I know it's "they have their own life too, so dont expect fast replies" yes, but do tell them when you are plotting together? Or if you know you're busy, tell them. it only take a few mins to tell them that you will be replying late or better, dont plot.

Number 4 might sound selfish but I'm stressing on the number 1-3 more, it's sooooo annoying.