no one likes you other than your mom

i'm not a fan of grammar

a lot of people think my blog will get people to apologize, it won't.

no one is going to apologize when they have been made out to be a pathetic and crazy person.

instead, go to the person and tell them how you feel, you will get a better and more genuine result that way. but then again, there are people who refuse to do so even if they are in the wrong.  

when it comes to people like that, stand your ground, and i mean keep it. 

but at the same time, keep calm and be smart. listen to every word they say, and be aware that some people like to see a calm person lash out because it's an accomplishment for them, and they can easily turn themselves into the victim.

even if they have shown no aggression and decided to take the "soft" route, they can still try to play the victim.

but when you see these people have shown they won't look back at their wrongs, walk away.

people like that need time and realization to see what they did wrong.

don't spite them because that will no longer make you the bigger person. don't give them the time of day, space of thought, or even a glance.

avoid them at all cost if the sight of them makes you belligerently angry.

and for those who don't know how to apologize... apologize when you mean it, not when it feels like an opportunity, not to make yourself feel better, and definitely not because you just have to.

an apology comes when you realized what you've done and knowing how the other person feels. and it's going to be messy, but that's okay because those are the most genuine apologies.

don't make it about yourself, those are the worst apologies and it won't be an apology, it would basically be a self-reflection and a bad one.

your apology itself is a reflection of your heart with no defense of any kind.