The People I Have Met

one thing I have noticed a lot about the people I have met here is most are emotionally unstable. i don't know if it's just this generational wave of adolesence (13-28)(and yes people in their 20s and 30s are still qualified as adolescence but they are officially titled, adultlescence. -sociology) but everyone seems to have this one deep problem and that is the need for attention in some way shape or form. Now don't think of it as if I'm saying everyone wants to be an attention , but what I'm saying is, something seems to be missing. there seems to be a uge gap in our generation. there are the kids that have no problem with life then there are the kinds that I meet here. They cut and cry and escape their lives to play another. I'm sure most, if not nearly, everyone has had to notice this at some point in time. but here's my thing about this whole emotional situation.

dont you think you should get your life together before trying to do any thing with anyone else or yourself.

i mean think about it, if you had a plan for yourself, for your life, don't you think that would draw more people in to you? I mean I learned once again from sociology and personal experience that people are drawn to others that got it together or at least act like they do. To me I think it's just silly to throw yourself away because of what other people say or do to you. It's YOUR life right? So why live it their way? Why give a damn when you have a life for YOURSELF. Of course there are going to be times when you fall and others when you're on top of the world. But at either point, you need to be there because of yourself, not because you want to let go of yourself. I think it's selfish to cut yourself, harming your body. A soul was given to that empty she'll you walk around in and you go around abusing it. ING STOP IT!!

it doesn't solve and it never will. "Oh it releases my pain." Yet you're still always crying, yet you're still always hurt. Instead of wallowing in your own self disgust go and make something of yourself. If there was someone to do anything for, it should be yourself. You were given a chance to live, stop trying to end it so early and live how you want to. 

Now with me saying all of this I'm sure I'm gonna get some comment saying I should stay out of it because I don't know what most of you are going through. And you're right and that's your choice to live like that but what I'm trying to say is. You're wasting time. Not space, but time. Soon in your life you're going to see that you didn't have to cut yourself and cry yourself to sleep every night. You're going to wish you got out and made something of yourself then spending so much time on something spot hat shouldn't matter.

i can't stress enough how much I wish you guys that cut and are in deep depression would stop and get up, get out, and get active. Each day you wake up for a reason. You need to find out what it is and work for it. And if not it, then get up for you.

(I'm sensitive to this topic...I have my own story to tell if you'd like someone to talk to and if you're sick and tired, of being sick and tired and ready to move on with what belongs to you.)

ew so many grammar issues I'm too lazy to fix...