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I don't think so. I think it all has to do with your attitude, if you like the way you dress then you should not be ashamed of it in front of people. The thing is that everyone judges by looks because the outside is all they can see before they actually talk to you but as long as you can go up to them and be your wonderful self showing that you're confident in yourself and your style there shouldn't be a problem. I have a friend who doesn't shave her legs but she always wears shorts, a friend who has the same shirt in ten different colors and a friend who likes to buy the same shoes in two different colors and wear one of each color. Is that weird? Sure. Is it different? Hell yeah. Do people judge them? Of course! But even though they are like this they still work it because they like it and everyone that I know knows them personally can not say anything bad about them because their personalities are just awesome!
I'm not a tomboy but I like wearing edgy clothes, skulls, fire, dragons, yes yes yes, I have tons of shirts and jackets with patterns like that and I love it. My friends like my style and I get sometimes compliments for wearing them because life taught me that you shouldn't be ashamed of the way you are and the things you like.
You said it yourself that's who you are and you like different. Show that to the world and if people dislike that attitude then screw them, they must be basic es.

Liz is the same and I am as well .... We are both tomboys and like dressing like one too and yes we find that its hard to make friends....and when we do they "disown?" Us as friends.....

Not at all. I dress the same and I have the same problems. I also wear a lot of shirts with rock bands and I get funny looks. But that just shows that those people don't need to be in your life. If they think just because you dress like that they can't be friends with you, then they're es. That's just judging someone from the outside. You want someone who will love you, not judge you. I hope I made sense.

Not really, I make friends perfectly fine...and I don't really choose my own clothes. I prefer the personality over looks. As long as our personalities click then it would be great ^o^

Mm..well it depends. Me, for instance, as long as you have hygiene I couldn't give a how you dressed, as long as you have a really good personality that made me want to be your friend. But yeah, in most instances, people do make friends by seeing who fits their taste the best.