Description
― likes : discovering lost, abandoned places and learning about their past, anything that shines and sparkles, expensive looking things, the sea
― dislikes : wannabe-leaders, impatience, disloyalty, hot weather
― hobbies : reading, fencing.
― talents : his sense of community, his leading skills, his ability to calm others down.
― goals : to live a fulfilling life, to be meaningful, to leave an impression, to be rich in both materialistic and cognitive matters.
― extra : archer tends to get anxious easily, however he has trouble expressing his feelings when he struggles. in that case, it's better to remind him of how far he's come and that he'll be able to deal with way more, that he's capable, and that he won't lose control over himself. he needs people to have his back, he needs the feeling of having people to fight for and people to fight for him. he's very dependent of social relationships. he can get really intimate with people, but he most likely won't do the first step. he loves closeness, platonic cuddles and such. but not because he loves people, but he loves the feeling of having power over them. he also is incredibly loyal, but don't mistake his loyalty for naiveness. you mess up with him once, you won't get that trust back. he can be quite bossy, well, he actually is really bossy. manipulative? that could be considered his second name. he will use any information he gets about you against you.
like this, he had a rather normal childhood, went to school because he wanted to, not because he was expected to. soon, archer had become an important part of his father's crew, as he'd go out and steal for him in the past. ever since he joined the academy, he's slowly starting to detach himself from the life his father had raised him into living. slowly, but surely.
he looks for a loyal partner that exudes free-spiritedness and strength. he needs someone just as passionate as him, because otherwise he will feel insecure about the relationship. he values the small little things the most, he loves, little, subtle touches, he love soft, little pecks just as much and slow, sensual kisses. as his partner, you'll be the center of his attention.
he sometimes gets a little hard to understand, he totally and absolutely loves affection, however when it comes to his own emotions, he struggles with expressing his feelings, so he just keeps them to himself. this way of dealing with his problems often gets him worked up and on edge, and he needs a partner who will give him space and not judge him for needing distance at times.
what he absolutely hates is guilt-tripping. you try that once, and you certainly lose his trust. once you lose his trust, you won't get it back. he has a big, big heart, but he's not a fool.
treat him with respect and reassure him he's doing enough, and he'll give you the world.