@✿ n. jaemin 100%. Financially stable and mentally stable i think. Honestly, i dunno care what my partner is try to pursue career wise, i will always support them as long as we can support our family- if we decide to have kids.
Speaking of weddings, have you ever thought of your ideal one?
@✿ m. lalisa sorry, i just saw this now!! for sure, i don't want to consider marriage until late 20s. oh yes, that's another good point! i think the ideal time if when at least both partners are somewhat financially secure or secure career wise. i know it may seem materialistic, but honestly if those things aren't set, then i think it's just gonna be a reoccurring issue. also, weddings cost a lot!
@✿ n. jaemin That seems to be ideal for most, honestly same. No one is looking to get married soon lmaoooo
I want us to be moved into together at the very least and own stuff tgt.
Okay, when do you think its the ideal time to ask sor someone’s hand in marriage or is there no amount of time needed?
@✿ m. lalisa lol no worries, all good. thanks haha. 5 years romantically hmm...i honestly hope to be engaged. or at least in a long-term stable relationship. you?
@✿ m. lalisa for sure complicated and messy. emotions aren't so simple as people try and make them out to be. i think long story short, you could love 2 people, but its not for everyone.
yeah, i have... or at least i'd like to think so. it was good, ofc there were really great memories im still fond of, but also it's hard, losing someone you're used to having by your side. but an end just means another new start right?
@✿ n. jaemin No, i agree with you 100%. It can definitely get messy, but love is messy in itself. I just think feelings are complicated and there’s 7billion people on earth.
so now I ask the million dollar question; have you ever been in love before? And if so what was it like to for you?
@✿ m. lalisa that's such a sweet compliment, really, i'm so glad! easily entertained is a +++. that's very true. it's very abstract, and open to many different interpretations. oh did you? that's cool! it must have been quite the experience! i think you can, because there's different types of loves. but if you mean romantically, yeah, i think you can, but i think to say equally is a very muddled gray area. just feel like somewhere down the road, someone may get hurt eventually.
@✿ n. jaemin lmaooo you always make me laugh tbh but as i said in my bio, okay easily entertained shzshs
Yeah i dont think love is a definitive thing to like predict time wise. people’s brains work different and so do emotions. I’ve looked at someone before and just knew they were going to be mines, that’s actually what happened with my last boyfriend lolol
So that brings me to ask, do you believe you can be in love with two people and why
@✿ m. lalisa hahaha im glad someone laughs at my lame jokes, it's nice having a receptive audience for once .. LOL
definitelyyyy. especially if ive put a lot into the rs trying to make it work.
nah not corny. i feel a lot of people ask that. i personally think it takes time to develop, but i have heard married people saying they just knew the first time they interacted.
Yes lying and manipulation are the worst. When you go and defend someone and they prove to be everything you said they weren’t. Or you hype them up sm just to get played, that it a different kind of hurt.
OKAY this question is a little corny but do you believe love is something that takes time to develop or can you fall in love at first sight?
ayyyy that's good we're on the same page :)
probably dishonesty is the worst one for me. i don't care how bad it is but just don't waste my time and make me look stupid by not.
@✿ m. lalisa hopefully you get some good rest tonight tho :c 1 half complete doesn't make things whole...
hmm.. probably good humor, good communication and i guess patience. you?
@✿ m. lalisa oh so no sweet talking? but i gotta impress you somehow haha ;) working huh, good ;P
you can send me whatever you want, i like talking to you. but yes, get your beauty sleep!
goodnight lisa, sleep well, and i'm ready for your interrogation tmrw 8) and likewise, i'm really looking forward to get you know more too!
@✿ n. jaemin now you’re just sweet talking me u w u and idk working- okno lmao
Ahhhh, my eyes are closinntbh and I don’t eanna send you sleepy nonsense so imma sleep but expect /hella/ questions tomorrow. you seem really cool and I’m excited to get to know you more