I have NEVER complained on this site EVER! However, I'm sick and tired of seeing people thinking that they are in the right about complaining about people that say that they don't feel welcomed, that they are being ignored, etc... BUT BEFORE YOU LEAVE LISTEN FOR JUST A MINUTE. Please?
I'm not going to say WHO said this because it isn't about who said it but about WHAT they said and how.
This individual commented on how someone should not ing (their language not mine) complain about feeling ignored if they never put forth the effort in talking to everyone. Okay, fair point and I absolutely agree. You can't just sit there and assume that people are just going to talk to you BUT HOWEVER, the comment that this was directed to was at someone who i saw COUNTLESS times come into the chatroom and onto walls and be COMPLETELY ignored by almost EVERYONE minus me and one admin. This individual left an rp after feeling very outcasted by everyone but did not leave with any ill feelings towards anyone.
But the person who felt the need to comment and complain about someone who merely was expressing their feelings in hopes that others will not do what they did to them to others and felt it was right to BELITTLE them. This is a person that I have seen SO MANY times in the blog post section and in roleplays PREACHING about how they can't stand it when people ignore others, how people bully and bring down others. So, sweetheart, I have a question for you. Do you feel better? Do you feel better talking lowly about someone who spoke up about how they are feeling? About how they just wanted at least someone to realize that they were there and simply conversate with them? Do you feel good about doing everything you preach about to NOT do?
All I have to say to everyone is please... if someone is feeling ignored do not feel annoyed that they are pointing it out. Talk to them. Remember that the character who said that there is an actual living and breathing human being behind them, who JUST like YOU has feelings.
You do not know what they are going through and what they are thinking.
It does not hurt you to stop wheezing and cackling FOR just ONE moment to say hi or how are you. It does not.
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