Why are.. people.. so fake

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Authormewmeow

Created Sep 19, 2022 14:47:23

I am so annoyed I have this "best friend" (no one on here so don't worry) I am so annoyed we were planning a trip to go away during thanksgiving and like we arranged payment and stuff, and she had the audacity to say, "Hey are you gonna pay for all of this because I can't afford it." In front of my family and her family and im just stuck there saying yes because I feel terrible after she goes through a whole sob story about her ex and whatnot (which I have heard more times than I can count) and I can't afford this, the sheer stupidity of the whole situation makes me want to just not even go to school (by the way your girl got into Uni of Michigan for Nursing so like that's a positive =D). But i don't even know what to do, I don't want to seem like a liar to HER family and MY family but I really wanted to go on this trip with her but now I have such a sour taste for the whole thing.

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tsukispookie 2 years ago

Go on the trip by yourself.

Honestly the even *asking* if you're paying for their part of the trip is disgusting. (NO offense). Why is she even humorist the idea of a trip if she knows she can't afford it? It sounds like she planned to guilt you into paying either way.

Honestly, if I were you, I'd let that friendship go. Sounds like you're more so being used.

be1a1693a27ad2785d36 2 years ago

random birb here
but i felt like that was intentional so you wouldn't get to say no
don't go on a trip you won't end up enjoying and have you broke in the end :c
best wishes!!

26d7589e8d90e86191a0 2 years ago

Cancel the trip
From someone thats currently financially undtable. Its not worth it. I did the same paid for a lot of my friends trip for sob stories and ended up in debt. Dont do it and find new friends. Its harsh but thats how I learn.

meannhoe 2 years ago

love just talk to her and be like i did the math and i cant afford it.
you either have to chip in or we gonna have to reschedule for when we can both afford it.. cuz it aint fair to you

ea3a2bd32421bb61c5e3 2 years ago

Oh hell no, cancel the trip if you can! Or go by yourself lmao. Like sorry but you are also struggling, the whole world is rn besides the rich and stingy, that's messed up.

Apoptosis 2 years ago

I’d try seeing if anything is refundable and go about canceling the plans.
I would tell her that with getting into your nursing program you needed to reevaluate your finances and you don’t think it’s the tight time for a vacation.

53346719ca8c64372eec 2 years ago

but also congrats on getting into nursing school and also rip lmao TT I work with nurses and their schedules are insane I hope all goes well babe

53346719ca8c64372eec 2 years ago

have an honest conversation with her in private bro ask her if she's able to get a part time job to cover the expenses of the trip even, if she gets offended that you won't pay for her whole trip then lose her tbh lmao or at least have a payment plan to pay you back like bruh I've been through my own share of relationship bull and the last thing I'd want to do at this point is rely on somebody else and honestly if she acts like this regularly with the closest people to her then I think she needs a wake up call idk what happened between her and her ex but none of that should affect your relationship with her

ickyriki 2 years ago

Passerby here
But i feel that's something she shoulda mentioned before all that planning even took place :')