the title is a joke, i just watched chen's new mv and i was lowkey highkey crying about how gorgeous he was, and since he is my ultimate bias to ever bias, it made sense of course.
i have noticed since his marriage announcement (or engagment announcement ig, since he is supposedly not married yet?? but idk, i dont really trust anyone regarding his personal life other than him lol) that rps have been banning idols who are married from their rps. i kinda understand in nonau rps, especially those centred around dating, but i still wonder if the same rules should apply to those who are publicly dating other idols/people like red velvet's joy (who, last i knew, was dating crush) or twice's momo when she was dating heechul, but that was before this marriage ban so ig that doesn't count? idk. not trying to bring up bp's jennie and bts' v bc they haven't made any public announcement about their rs (not that they have to) but ig they would count if that happened. there are probably others but i do not keep track of that lmao.
i could be doing strawman but this blog is mostly for the question: why? why do you feel that banning a married idol (or fcs, i should say) is a rule that is just as needed as banning a deceased or problematic idol? perhaps comparing the two is unfair but i'm genuinely curious. this blog probably comes off very standoffish and super biased, since i rp jongdae when he is allowed in an rp and i personally dont see the need, but im genuinely interested to hear your thoughts on the matter. because i can't think of any reason other than respecting specfically chen's family's privacy, and maybe ikon's bobby as well, though idk much about that situation since i don't stan him or ikon (no reason i just dont lol i already got enough on my plate). but idk how a non-celebrity's privacy would be affected when it is just someone rping that person in an rp in an aurp (i do understand more for nonau tho, like i get it).
ANYWAY... im not trying to present this as an argument but as a discussion and i hope you will be respectful bc i will be. i just find this rule to be thought-provoking and its one i dont understand, espcially since i haven't seen this being a concern before exo's chen's marriage announcement, but i could be wrong, that is just how my memory serves. but im not trying to start fights or be standoffish since i have friends who put this rule into their rps and i literally hate confrontation and fighting so much hfdjhds so if my tone is really off im sooo sorry, it is not my intention, im just curious.
stan chen for clear skin and let me know your thoughts on this rpr rule ❤️
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