Break-ups... Heartbreaks.... Whatever~

Are break-ups really that . . . . . . . .

heartbreaking?

Well, you see... There's this friend of mine who I really pity in such a way.

Her boyfriend is a 'playboy' (like wtf, he doesn't even look that good >.<), but she still loves him upon obviously knowing that. I've heard allot of rumors about them, with the fights, cool offs, breakups, and aksdjbfjsf a whole lot more, usually negative ones (yeah, we weren't that close back then).

There's even this time when I couldn't sleep and I was just surfing through the internet... she sent a group message, cursing her boyfriend to death.  I was worried so I replied, asking her what happened..... again. She said her boyfriend cheated on her (and 'again'). She said she needs someone's comfort and asked me if I could go to her house. I said yes, since I'm bored(u.u).. so yeah, I went there (mind you, it was already around 1 o'clock in the morning). So as I arrived at her house, as expected, drama, drama, drama.......... and drama. I tried comforting her to stop, but she wouldn't, as she kept on telling me what happened between her and her bf. The reason was about 'that' guy's ex-girlfriend. That she wouldn't even know he's still flirting with her until now, if the guy's friends haven't told her so. Upon knowing that, she confronted her bf about it, and thus, became the reason why they fought, and then HE decided to end their relationship up. As we talked, I told her not to think of it anymore. I mean,  she's pretty (she really is), there still are allot of guys out there. Ones which are even better than her ex (so much better.. seriously). And hurray! It somehow worked ( a bit.. xD)

As the days passed, she said she had finally moved on, though she still talks about him every once in a while. She even decided to change her style (people usually does. I don't get it... WAE???), just to see her the next day, with a 'rebonded-reddish-colored-bob cut' hair. Her attitude changed as well, and which is a good one. She comes with us more often, than to those of her old friends who were just bad influences, and promised to avoid them for goodness' sake.

We were so happy for her. So happy seeing her move on......... until this certain day we found out that she went back with that guy she almost wanted to kill by her own hands. I really felt sooooo upset about what she did, seriously. I felt that all the comfort and advices we gave her were so useless.

Then just yesterday, I saw her at school as we went back after a short weekend break, and I was like @.@asdkfjdnvdchsdnchnf@.@ what the hell happened?! Her aura was so different from before.... another change of style. She cut her hair even shorter with bangs and had another rebond... I asked another classmate about this and she told me that this girl and her bf broke up. Like seriously, how many times would they split and get back together again?? But now I guess this one's permanent, 'cause I also knew that this girl I'm talking about has her new bf.. I was also like wrioewgvdbn that fast???

And as expected, she completely changed. Usually, she's the one who approaches us first, but yesterday, she didn't. I don't know if she even looked at us, and that really pissed me off. It feels like she only talks to us or even consider us as friends when she's down and in need of comfort. I hate friends like that. We (me and my friends) felt like slapping her in front of her flirty friends yesterday. It would have been a perfect timing 'cause they were flirting and surrounded by boys. But no, we didn't. Instead, we talked about it in an open forum before going home (without 'her', the topic of course). We know she still loves her ex-boyfriend, obviously, 'cause why would she change like that? I really don't get it.... Why do brokenhearted people (mostly girls) change after a break-up??? *scratches my nape*

So yeah, a reason why I don't wanna enter 'relationships'. I mean, what's so good about having one? ......... *long silence* ......... Oh, wait. I forgot, I'm in a relationship, orz.. relationshipS, actually. Long distance ones though...... I have photos of them and I'm very happy and proud to share it... here...... >/////<

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*le kicked to the outerspace*

No, seriously.... Any advice I could possibly tell her? 'Cause as a friend, we really care for her. We've also noticed that it had really affected her performance in school, and we want to help her.