worrying

If anyone tells me that they're going to talk to me at a certain time, but something comes up and they can't then that's fine. But at least tell me you can't. A quick message takes a few seconds and no work. But if you don't, and then I don't hear from you, that's not okay. It's not that I don't care if you can't talk to me, I get it that stuff comes up. The problem is that I care too much. If I plan something with you and I don't hear from the other person then every situation of what could have happened to them runs through my head and I worry and it gets worse and worse the longer it goes on. Just saying, a smoke message is better than silence.