not happy with my boyfriend

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Authornikkinamxo

Created Jun 10, 2015 19:26:52

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I'm not happy with my bf >< he got busy for one week and 4 days. I sent him another message on Tuesday and he just seen zoned me. I don't think that he's still busy. I asked him is he's still going to visit me here in Australia. He also wants me to go back to America and live with him *sighs* Probably he's busy talking to other girls urgh! On April he got busy for one week only and he talked to me again but this time is longer. I don't know what he's doing tbh. I asked him if he really loves me or he only want me for . He said he does love me but I have a feeling that he only want me for >< He always ignore what I say to him and I feel hurt. I called him on Skype but when we tried video chat, his one didn't work. I asked him to fix and I was wondering if he's a catfish and don't want to show his face. I asked him if he fixed it and he said I'm going to sleep now. I feel like he's making an excuse. He sent me selfies of him. If he doesn't talk to me again then I won't let him come here anymore. I don't care if I'll be single forever if we break up again. He knows that I don't want to get hurt again but he broke my heart. He always make me mad. I have many things to say but I might cry

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inukagmirogolovekpop 9 years ago

If you have some issues or bad thoughts about him. I think its best if you confront him properly. Tell him that if he doesnt tell you the truth on whats going on, then you're going to break up with him. Make him feel sad, regretful and worried for you. If he truly does love you, he'll do whatever it takes just to text you back. If he's seen it and is busy, just say so. Don't just leave a girl hanging. Its not cool. If you know that he's seen the message, give him a question mark, "?" and say, "why aren't you replying?" You have to make your boyfriend understand you. And if he's only going out with you for then ditch him. He's not worthy of your love. He also isnt worthy of you body either. You're not a e, a one night stand and you are certainly not a hoe. You need to stand you ground, sister. You need to show him who's boss. You cant just feel sad or angry and then worry about it. You have and need to act on it. If he doesn't want to show his face, then push him. If he keeps making excuses then you should make excuses too. Its a win-win situation if you're doing the same thing as him. He'll be asking and thinking the same questions and things you're telling me right now (if he really does care) like, "what's wrong?" And thats when you tell him, all your feelings and how you think that he's cheating on you. Sometimes girls just need to think it through. I mean, I did, and i guess it worked out okay. Don't cry.. if he truly loves you, he won't make you cry. Like ever. Also, he isn't worth it if he makes you cry. He's a player if he's talking to other girls. You shouldn't think that you'll be single and lonely forever. Sometimes I think its for the better. But he isnt the only guy or fish in the sea. There are many others. So please.. don't think like that and lets just hope for the best okay? Btw, if I were a guy, i'd totes punch the out of him, tbh. Oh and keep me updated on this, I wanna know how he really feels about you.