A-Z Questionnaire (taken from panda ^^)

A – Accidents

01. Have you ever been in a car accident?

• Nope

02. Do you have a lot of scars?

• Mmm...I do actually, but they're not like...really big, noticable scars.

03. Have you ever been in a fist fight with someone?

• Nah, all my fights are verbal.

04. Have you ever seriously hurt anyone by mistake?

• Yes, my older brother.  We were playing when we were kids and he had his arms around me to hold me still and our cousin yanked my hand.  That in turn, made my head jerk up and catch my brother under his chin which made him bite his tongue.  I felt so bad because he needed stitches and the doctor said it was lucky my brother didn't bite it off o.o

05. Have you ever had stitches?

• Does in my mouth count?  I had to get stitches when my wisdom teeth were removed...

B – Beauty

06. Do you consider yourself beautiful?

• In all honesty, no.

07. Are you self conscious of how you look?

• Very.  I always say things like 'I don't care what people think of how I'm dressed or how I look', but really, I spend quite a bit of time, looking at my clothes and trying to make sure I don't look weird or something.

08. Do you put on a lot of makeup?

• None at all.  The only constant female influence I have is my mom and she's never really worn make up either. I've never really had anyone to bestow their make up knowledge onto me XD

09. Would you ever consider getting plastic surgery?

• That's kinda iffy.

10. What do you think makes a person beautiful?

•   As concerned as I am about how I look (doesn't everyone feel that way sometimes?) I don't believe it's all in the looks.  I think a person can be beautiful by their actions and the way they are and their personality.

C – Consequences

11. What was the longest amount of time you’ve been grounded for?

• I've never really been grounded.  I was a major bookworm when I was a kid so my dad would ground me from reading just because it was all I did, but...I never listened and after maybe a day or so, he doesn't say anything when I start reading again. 

12. What would you do if you got pregnant, keep it or have an abortion?

• Saying this is unplanned, I would keep the baby.  My parents have always taught me that a baby didn't ask to be born.  If I didn't want to get pregnant, then I should take measure to make sure it doesn't happen.  I won't give up my child because I was too stupid to use protective measures.

13. Do you ever think about how your actions affect other people?

• Yes and no.  It kind of depends on the people and the situation, but I don't always think about it.

14. What do you think is the worst punishment someone could give you?

• Tbh, I'm not really sure.  It might be watching my family being taken away or watching them get hurt/tortured/killed.

15. What is one thing you wish you didn’t do, just because it wasn’t worth it in the end?

• Oh god, I hate to say it, but there are quite a few things I wish i didn't do.  (people, secretly dating your older's brother's friend is not a good idea)

 

D – Dealing

16. When you are mad at someone, how do you show them?

• This is another thing that depends on the situation.  It could turn into a verbal argument.  I don't usually get mad--it takes a while-- but when I do, I tend to cry when I get really mad.  I usually ignore the person for...idk, a while.

17. Name a time when you had to be strong.

• Referring back to #15.  I secretly dated my brother's friend when the guy was staying with us for a while.  I had just turned 18 and my brother found out who then told my parents.  There was a lot of being yelled at and my dad had more or less called me easy because he didn't believe all the guy and I had done was kiss.  Just to be clear, I don't get to go out a lot, I'm self conscious and I'm not so good at talking with new people face to face, so I don't get to meet  a lot of guys.  This guy was older than me, cute, and had an interest in me. At the time, I believed it was worth it.

18. Have you ever dealt with a divorce or parents fighting?

• Parents fighting.  Around january last year, they got into like...a major fight.  They barely talked for a couple months and my dad slept on the couch. 

19. When people at school don’t accept you, or have problems with you, how do you react?

• As a kind of, idk self defense thing, if they say something to me I tend to be really sarcastic and seem confident, but other than that I just don't pay attention to them.

20. Have you ever lost someone to death? Explain how you got through it.

• Yes.  It was my great grandmother and when she died I was still really young.  I remember bits of it, but because I was only a toddler at the time, I don't remember much.

 

E – Experience

21. Have you ever had a job? Any volunteer jobs?

• *cries* sadly, no.  It's really hard to get a job here.  I would do volunteer jobs, but I don't have my own means of transportation and my mom is busy enough as is.

22. Do you think that you are ually experienced, or not at all?

• Uhm...to an extent I suppose? lol

23. Have you gone through a lot emotionally, or has life been easy thus far?

• I wish my life has been easy.  I think the last few years have been the most emotional.

24. Do you think you are ready to be on your own (have your own home, job, etc.)?

• In a way, I am.  I'm not overly dependent on being around other people.  I think I'll still be living at home for a while, not just because I don't have a job, but for my mom.

25. How old do you act?

• Depending on the situation, I can act anywhere from being a little kid, to a teenager, to an adult in maybe their thirties.

 

F – Family

26. Is there anyone in your family you don’t talk to? Why?

• I talk to pretty much everyone in my immediate family, but I talk to my dad and 15 year old brother the least.  My dad because it's just kinda...idk we've never really been close.  My younger brother because for some reason, he's one of those people that I just look at and I get irritated. I feel bad about it so i figure not talking to him is better than arguing or whatever.

27. If you had to choose, family or friends?

• I don't have a lot of friends (I can count them on one hand) and besides, if you're close enough then your friends can be considered family, right?  So yeah, I'd pick family.

28. Can you tell your parents or one of your parents anything?

• Mmm....almost everything.

29. Do you have any siblings? If so, do you ever get jealous of them?

• Yes and yes.

30. How often do you spend ‘quality time’ with family members?

• Occasionally.  It kinda depends on what we're doing.

 

G – Growing

31. How tall are you? How tall do you wish you were?

• I think I'm around 5'2" and 5'3".  I like tall guys so I think my height is all right.  When I like a girl taller than me, that's when I wish I was a little bit taller.

32. Do you think that you have grown more in the past year than any year before that?

• o.o height wise, I haven't grown.  Emotionally and mentally, it's a combination of the past couple years that have made me grow.

33. As a person, do you think you are mature for your age or still act childish?

• I tend to be a bit more serious, depending on the situation, but of course I can act childish still.

34. Are you scared to think that one day you will turn 30, then 40, then 50?

• Yes and no.  It's more of the fact to think that I don't know where I'm going to be at that time.

35. Do you believe you still have a lot to learn?

• Most definitely.  I have so many things I want to learn, it's ridiculous.

 

H – Hope

36. Love – real or not?

• I believe it is.

37. Are you a pessimist or an optimist?

• I can be an optimist, but I'm also my own worst troll.  I can be optimistic about something, but if something starts going wrong or someone tells me about something that could go wrong, I start to troll myself and tell myself all the other things that could happen.  When I think about more positive outcomes, I troll myself again.

38. Do you believe in fate, that everything happens for a reason, or do you think that our actions lead the way?

• Mm...I think our actions is what leads us to our fate.

39. Do you think that after we die our spirit is still alive?

• Not really....

40. What gives you hope when you just feel like dying?

• Jonghyun.  Kitty.

 

I – Issues

41. Do you suffer from depression or constant sadness/loneliness?

• Kind of?

42. Do you have any type of disease or disability?

• Does wearing glasses and having anemia count?

43. Are you currently in a hard relationship or have bad luck with the opposite ?

• Not in a relationship. Definitely had bad luck.

44. Do you think that you are alone in this world?

• In a way yeah...

45. How often do you think about death, suicide or running away?

• Actually thinking about it, I think about it quite a bit.  It's like...sometimes just passing thoughts of it.

 

J – Jokes

46. Say a word or phrase that would not be funny to anyone but you & one of your friends (an inside joke).

• Bad dog!

47. Are you usually the one who makes people laugh,Or the other way around?

• Uhm...I think so?

48. Do you cry when you laugh hard?

• Yes

 
49. Write down a hilarious moment you had with someone that makes you laugh to this day!

• I call my friend Kitty and she calls me Puppy.  So, I think I was tickling her or biting her or something and...yeah, I got called a bad dog o.o lol it's a lot funnier if you actually had seen what happened XD

 

50. Do you ever get in trouble for laughing or talking a lot during class?

• Nah, if anything I get asked to talk more because I don't talk in class.

 

K – Knowledge

51. The purpose of school: to learn, to cause trouble or to hang out with friends?

• Learn of course.

52. Do people refer to you as smart, dumb, or average?

• I...wouldn't know actually.

53. What was the highest grade you have received (full course mark) ever?

• Highest grade was I think 120%, but that was a while ago.
   

54. What was your last average? This year would you like to maintain it or aim higher?

• Tbh, I have no idea.

 

55. What do you find the most interesting subject to be (to study or to talk about)?

• I've never really had that kind of subject.

 

L – Love

56. Are you currently in love? If not, have you been before?

• No and no.

57. Do people around you show you a lot  of love (tell you they love you, hug you, kiss you, etc.)?

• Not irl.  Like when I see my maternal grandmother, when I'm leaving she says she loves me, but other than that no.

58. Is love worth it?

• If it's with the right person, yes.

59. Do you hate it when girls in their young teenage years say they ‘love’ someone that they’ve been dating for a few months?

• Yes.  Really, wtf? You're kids.  How can you already be in love with someone?

60. Does it take a lot for you to say you love someone, or is it just a word?

• Yes.  I've never told someone that isn't my family that I love them.  For myself, I don't think saying 'I love you' is something that should be tossed around lightly.

 

M – Money

61. Do you believe that money makes the world go round?

• Whether I believe it or not, fact is: we need money.

62. Is your family on the poor side, average, or above average when it comes to money?

• Average, I guess.  

63. Are you saving up for college/university, or planning to?

• o.o I would need money to be able to save up.

64. Would you rather win millions of dollars & be set for life, or find the perfect person to marry & start a family with?

• The money.  I wouldn't really be happy, but I would be able to help my family out.

65. On a scale of 1-10, how important is money to you?

• Maybe a 5?

 

N – Naughty

66. Are you a ?

• No.

67. What do you think about doing ual things with someone you’re not going out with?

• If you've known the person for a while, I don't think it's a bad thing.

 68. Do you know anybody you consider a ’’?

•  No.

69. If you could, would you erase some things you did in the past or make it so you did more?

• Yes o.o

70. Do you consider yourself more nice or more naughty?

• Depends on who I'm being nice or naughty for ;)

 

O – Openness

71. How long does it take for you to open up to someone?

• I tend to be a pretty open person.  Like if I get asked something then I'll answer depending on how personal the question is.

72. What does it take for you to fully trust someone?

• I have to know you for a while to trust you with my darker secrets.

73. Are you generally untrusting towards people because of past experiences, or any other reason?

• Just being wary and cautious.  If you tell someone the wrong things, you never know if they're going to go off and tell others.

74. When are you comfortable with someone ually?

• Uh...I'm not really sure.

75. When it comes to parents and close friends, what’s the limit of what you can tell them?

• I tell my mom and pretty decent amount, but I think I tell Kitty almost everything.

 

P – Positive

76. Have you ever had an experience with someone that didn’t necessarily end positively? If so, would you rather erase the memory of that person because of the sad times or keep the memory of that person because of the good times?

• Yes and yes. There wasn't a lot of good times.

77. Do you agree with the saying: better to have loved and lost than not have loved at all?

• Yes.

78. Are you more optimistic or pessimistic? What do you try to be?

• Didn't I answer this already? I try to be more optimistic though.

79. Do you agree that something good can come out of everything?

• Somewhat...

80. Have you ever had a time where something really bad happened, but something really good happened because of it? If so, please exlain what it was:

• Yes. My ex boyfriend was all about and tbh, he wasn't very satisfying. I hated that everything seemed to end with 'let's hang out?' which was basically his code for 'let's have '.  I started hating being in the relationship, but I got to go to korea because of it.

 

Q – Questions

81. When faced with a problem, do you ask for help or try to figure it out yourself?

• Try and figure it out myself.

82. Do you often ask questions about the world and how we came about? What are some things you would like to know about creation?

• Yup. How are babies made. jk. I want to know everthing o.o

83. Do you think the government is truthful? If you could ask the president one question, what would it be?

• No. Mm...I'm not sure.

84. When someone does something wrong to you, do you confront them and ask them why they did it or just let it go?

• It depends how bad it is.  If it's not major, I let it go.  If it's something big, then I'll confront them.

85. What is one unsolved mystery about the world that you want answers to?

• Life.

 

R – Respect

86. How do you show respect?

• Uhm...idk the way I talk? Giving someone my attention when they're talking? lol idk

87. What can someone do for you to lose all respect for them?

• Right now, the only thing I can think of is abusing someone in front of me/bullying someone.

88. Do you respect your teachers, parents, and other authority figures?

• Yes to an extent.

89. When you are disrespectful to your parents, what is the punishment?

• I'm not normally disrespectful, but if it happens that I am, I usually apologize right away.

90. If someone is mean to you, are you mean back or do you kill them with kindness?

• Depends on what they're being mean about.  For the most part though, I think I would ignore it, be really sarcastic and mean about it.  I rarely do the kindness thing.

 

S – School

91. If you are still in school, what grade will you be going into? 

• I'm in an adult high school program to get my diploma, but I don't exactly have a grade.

92. When will you graduate high school/college?

• Hopefully I'll be able to get my diploma by next year.

93. After high school, what did you do/are you planning to do?

• Otl...undecided for the most part, but I have some ideas.

94. Do you like or hate school? What do you like/hate about it?

• I'm in the middle.  I don't like doing homework or projects.  I tend to procrastinate. 

95. Have you ever been suspended, expelled, or dropped out of school?

• Yes. I withdrew from high school.

 

T – Temptation

96. Have you ever done something wrong, knowing it was wrong, because something inside of you said it was okay?

• I've done it because of someone.

97. Has anyone ever pressured you to smoke or drink? Did you do it?

• Yes and yes.

98. Did you ever cheat on someone? Why did you do it?

• No.

99. Did you ever want to do something ual with someone you didn’t really know or love? What did you end up doing?

• Yes.  I've done it.

100. Do you give in to temptation easily, or are you more independent and strong willed? 

• Depends on what's tempting me.

 

U – Unique

102. Do you do a lot of things because your friends are doing it?

• I used to.

103. Do you follow trends, wear whatever you want, or wear really unique pieces?

• *cries* I created a trend and no one knows me for it.  I got a panda pajama (like the one shinee wore on hello baby) and I would wear it to go out places.  After I started wearing it around, I would see people wearing other animal pajamas T^T

104. Do you give in easily to peer pressure? Do you do things such as smoke, drink, or have casual ?

• If there's more than one person pressuring me than yes.  Occasionally.

105. What makes you different from people your age?

• I'm me.

 

V – Value

106. What’s the most expensive thing in your room?

• I dun even know

107. What’s more valuable: your life or the lives of your loved ones? Would you sacrifice your life for other people?

• The life of my loved ones. It depends on why I would be sacrificing my life.  If its to save my family, I would do it.  If it's for a stranger...it depends on the situation.

108. What is something you value not because it cost a lot, but because it means a lot to you?

• Mmm...I don't think I really have anything like that.

109. If there was a fire in your house/apartment, what is the first thing you would grab?

• Seriously, I don't think I would grab anything. I think my first priority would be getting my dog out (she sleeps in my room) and going to make sure my family gets out.

110. Do you think past memories and experiences are more valuable than what could possibly happen in the future?

• No? Yes? I'm not sure.  I mean, what happens in the past tends to affect the future after all.

 

W – Wishes

111. If you had three wishes, what would they be?

• That my family be set for life, no struggling with anything.
• To meet SHINee
• Be able to work with idols o.o

112. Would you rather wish yourself to be happy, or your loved ones?

• My loved ones.

113. Do you believe that wishes come true if you really believe in them?

• I believe wishes come true because you make them come true.

114. Have you ever had a wish come true? If so, what was that wish?

• Going to Korea, seeing Key in Zorro.

115. Do you find wishing for things a waste of time because everything that’s meant to happen, will happen?

• No. Idk, making wishes makes me feel...better.

 

(could they not think of what to put for X?)

Y – You

121. Are you more independent or social?

• Independent (read: introvert XD)

122. What is something that makes you very mad when you see it?

• Abuse, whether it be to a person or to an animal. Physical or emotional.

123. Do you think that you have potential to do great things?

• Not really...

124. Do you think people are born a certain way, or develop their personalities based on what they go through in life?

• I think you're born with your personality, but I also think that the things you go through can mold your personality as well.

125. Do you think people are generally good ?

• Everyone had good and bad in them.

 

Z – Zest

126. Are you currently happy with your life? Why or why not?

• Not really.  Too many reasons.

128. When change occurs, do you get scared or are you excited for it?

• I'm a bit wary of change, but I learn to accept it and actually do get excited for it.

129. Do you like to try new things, meet new people?

• Even though I'm an introvert, I do like to try new things and meet new people.  I'm just too shy to make the first move.

130. What is the most motivational thing in the world?

• SHINee.

 

(Phew! Finally done. This took forever! Anyways, I hope you guys enjoy my answers or whatever ^-^)