So recently I finally decided to break ties with a friend. At first it was a tough decision, because I had been friends with her for years...the first few times i started reconsidering our friendship was when she'd ignore my texts to hang out, ignore my reaching out, and from ignoring her now ex-boyfriend...who is still her friend and still crushing on her because he thinks that she's going to change...I thought so too.
Then I realized that she wasn't. She was getting worse. She only asked me to hang out when it was reliable for her, when she knew I was going to help her with something. She ed over my dad, making him sit outside her house for 30 minutes as I rang her bell for 15 minutes straight....just to have her text me right when we were picking up someone else that she "overselpt". She allowed me to come over her house to fix her sister's cosplay for con. And said I could make my boots for mine at her house.
I confirmed with her 2 weeks before that I could make my boots at her house (i needed her not glue gun), then reminded her a week before that. She texted me the day before I was supposed to come over about her lenses for her cosplay coming in. And when I texted back saying "just want to make sure it's still ok for me to come over tomorrow"....she never replied. I messaged her every half hours from 2:30 p.m one day...til 11:30 the next until I gave up and had to ask my boyfriend to help. His cousin was 10x more reliable than someone who is supposed to be my friend, someone who I have helped a number of times.
She still didnt message me until I got fed up and said 4 days later "Next time tell me no if i can't go, its better than getting ignored". Mind you I messaged her phone and her fb...and this girl's response was "Oh myphone isn't sending or receiving texts." well I didn't believe that since her phone was new, and my glitchy af phone doesnt send or receive texts half the time..also because I knew her ex was messaging her phone...but i let it go.Then she says "We're getting our passes together tomorrow right?" of course she wants me to come so she isn't alone with her sister....oh and the day we picked up passes...she complained that my friend and bf were running "late"...although they came 10 minutes earlier than what they were supposed to??? And she's ALWAYS about an hour late meeting with me at a rather dangerous train station. But that doesn't matter right?
The top of the cake is that all through out con she'd ditch us constantly. Then blamed me for walking off. I didnt know being at the ing both next to her was walking off in all honesty. The first day my cousin, bf, my friend and I gave up on finding her and her little sister every five minutes.
Second day of con. She texted me saying "I'm here". I was five minutes away from her with my bf, my cousin was driving us to the con and there was traffic and i told her this. SO she told me to meet her at Barnes and Noble...and we did...she wasn't there. We stood there for 10 minutesbefore I texted my other friend to tell her to meet me and my bf at that area..then waited another 5 minutes before i messaged my unreliable friend...turned out she was in the convention, didnt tell us she ing moved.
So when we got into the con...(15 min line) and found her, I went right to her nd yelled at her. Tbh Ive had enough of people's bull in general. I told her "Next time tell me where the you go. Dont ING tell ME to meet you somewhere and not say you ing left/ And I had ENOUGH of you walking off, we ing gave up on you yesterday and Im not having it today"....her response "I was about to text you when you texted me". that pissed me off even more...so I said along the lines of "You're supposed to tell me RIGHT AT THE MOMENT YOU LEAVE NOT FIFTEEN MINUTES LATER"
Then she changed the topic and said "Oh this is my friend he's natsu"....she was obviously upset I yelled at her...but for her to think that i in that moment cared to meet her online friend (she ditch me for him although sh just met him in those 15 min officially). And she was obviously mad that I said he couldn't come to lunch with us because none of the group actually knew him, and I said my friend bobby could bring his friends (at least they interracted with us and went to school with bobby)....So then back at the con she kept ditching us with her online friend, we'd look for her constantly....then all of a sudden my friend (reliable) said to me "Why is she holding hands with that guy like you and vincent/my bf/?" When we all saw that those two's hand were entertwined the whole group was annoyed.
Then the whole group was PISSED when she let her little sister wander off with us for an hour. This girl didn't bother messaging her sister for an hour...her little sister had to do it. After they were reunited...we all decided to ditch her...we were done.
5 days later I find out that guy (who looked like he was almost 30) is her "boyfriend" and they were on a date at the con. Im so ing done because one: I was used for this and two: because she could care less about her sibling.
I ing hate people who do not respect my time and kindess. I have too much of that in my family and ing school...I don't need friends like this either -.-
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