Stay afloat on salty waters

Good morning babies yes this is me again. 

The one who is always so thoughtful and patient and loving and caring. Guess what? Those things are the reason I didn't get a single second of sleep last night. Mhm yes I didn't sleep at all because I care way too much and quote Bilbo baggins "I don't like the most of you as much as you deserve and those who deserve it aren't as half as close to me as I wish they were". Now. This sounds pretty harsh, doesn't it? 

You guys do know I love you tho.

But honestly speaking, I collected so much salt, I could probably season all of your French fries for the rest of the month. 

So gentledudes, ladylikes, kids and grandparents please buckle your seat belts because this is going to be a wild ride. Please take this blog post with enough humor and an open heart to not slaughter me after you're done reading.

Dear people on rpr.  Let me make something clear. None of us on here are obligated to do . I mean it. We are not obligated to stay on here, be in relationships or stay in rps for ages. 

We are also not obligated to keep people updated on our lives. If we want to? Sure do it. But! If you don't want to that's fine too. Everyone on here has a life (well, apparently, some more than others because whoop we've been playing petty circus a lot) and life gets stressful and hectic. 

Excuse me if I'm wrong, but we are still online, are we not? We all have our issues, face it. We all have stressful lives. And we are different on the Internet than we are in real life. (Again, this does not apply to everybody and I'm not dragging anybody or throwing shade Nuh uh)

And I vowed to myself to keep my as FAAAR away from drama as I can but now here I am. 

"Kelly how do you stay so positive all the time?"

Oh babe I'm not. I am a mess. But I can differentiate between real life and things online and especially the things I share online. If I share something super private with someone on here, well yay you're important to me! I do make random ranting blog posts, I whine, I and boy I can get ugly. 

This here is not me being ugly. This is me being real (and probably salty and sassy af). Honestly tho? Recently all I can do is sit in front of my screen and GRIMACE. 

What the hell is going on?? People! This! Is! Online! Let's face it, we are a petty, easily offended, overly sensitive ing community on here sometimes and that's FINE. what is NOT fine is dragging people down into the abyss with us. You feel like ? Talk to someone (I.e. me!)

Get salty and throw shade? Be a huge rude troll on serious matters? Oh wow you better pray I won't run into you on the street. And the past few days ( since Sunday morning) I'm just--- speechless. Like.

We, as an online community have some responsibility, no matter how anonymous this is, or how much we "do not want to get involved with people too much"

Because we do. We get involved and we let people in and we get close to someone no matter if this other person is being sincere and honest. It happens. happens. Life goes on.

This community tho, is filled with young people who are yet to be shaped by the world. And toxic behaviour, no matter if it's on the Internet, will shape people. It will teach them that it's ok to treat other people like , lie and cheat and talk about upsetting get matters as a mother ing joke.

There are virtues, my babies. Virtues you can apply to your life for a better gaming experience.

Think before you speak and act.

Stop for a moment and breathe before you flip tables

It's so easy, isn't it? So now let's continue to be the saltiest ocean to be found on earth. May your boat stay afloat today.

You do you but remember: i'm here the first time you need help. The second time you need help. The third time you need help.  But upset me once and twice and a third time? Yeah no