genuinely curious

[ im just bored and word vomitting tbh so you have been warned. ]

for those who are questioning why none of their friends comment on their blog posts

i always wonder the specfic differences of rpers that people see, of which makes them swerve that rper when they talk about certain things. like for instance, two rpers who have the same pmrp request criteria, both have a ton of "friends," but only one rper's blog post has requests to rp. one theory i have is that even though an rper may be very popular and have lots of friends, those friends are purely situational and only cater to that rper's needs when it benefits them or makes them look like a good friend/person. now you may think, "well that's pretty harsh," but honestly, if you look at the entirety of your friends list, you may acknowledge that yes, if i post a cry for help they will respond (maybe because they want to look good as a person???? maybe because they want in on your drama because they don't have enough of their own???), but if you posted that you needed help, or wanted to rp, or other random , it'll be like ghost town up in there because these fallacious friends of yours have no interest in what you're posting because there's no immediate benefit for them. 

i have another argument to bring up, that counters popular opinion that people who are truly your friend comment on every single blog post and thing you do. 

honestly though

honestly, 

true friends aren't going to only serve encouragement when you ask for it in blog posts. they're not going to only offer a listening ear when you post that you're struggling. true friends will know you're struggling because you go to them first to help you, or they come to you when they notice something is wrong. true friends won't have to post or comment on your blog posts, because they should be right there helping you through your problems before it gets to the point where you have to publically reach out (unless you're looking for sympathy or something.) also, true friends don't have to constantly comment on every single blog post you make because a true friend should be someone who you can talk with like crazy somewhere, have periods of time where you guys are busy and doing your own thing, but still at the end of the day, are able to congregate and get together and talk like crazy like if  there was no break. you know a bond is fortified when it withstands the test of time. 

now onto a popular topic now a days: why do these people keep posting irrelevant blogs about how sad they are, how rpr or life has gone down the toilet, etc etc

well guys, i have your answer(s)???? kind of. well, in my mind here are the justifications i've made.

1. it alleviates their stress because in a world where their voice may not be heard, they can speak their mind in a blog post, even though THEY THEMSELVES know it is irrelevant to most people
2. my least favorite: they are looking for sympathy
3. they're bored. literally, that's it. (me 98% of the time)
4. it's kind of fun posting things on your mind, and getting other people's opinions on it
5. to attempt to be relevant aka calling people out, trying to bring up controversial subjects, to try and irritate people using triggering themes. (pls remember rpr is not a political or otherwise serious platform, this is not the place to voice your opinions on racism, religion, politics, crime, etc etc.)

the main point i'd like to bring up is: mind your own damn business if people's irrelevant blog posts bother you. (just don't comment, unsubscribe, don't read. complain about it to that one friend who won't throw you under the bus for talking .) because in most cases, posting blogs is just a form of mental release. and even though people may not respond, it still feels good to say things that are on your mind, in a collective piece of writing that at least a couple people will read.

- it's kanye, [ britney spears voice ]