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im bored and my muse is nada so here is some
if you are bored and skimming through blog posts like i do on the occasion, maybe this will entertain you while you're taking a
that is the only goal of this blog

in an article titled, "15 differences between basic es and bad es," author ashley hesseltine lists fifteen scenarios of which she pointed out what a 'basic ' would do, versus a 'bad '

here is an honorable mention of the article's twelfth entry:

tbh i wanted to put this up because it reminds me of rpers on here sooooooo much, so that's the real reason why i found it so funny

on the same note, i want to hop on that train that baby girl is spearheading, to gauge more opinions of the rpr populace about the rpr populace.
do you think some people who get called a or an otherwise derogatory term get their feathers ruffled because they're insecure? because they want everyone to love them? because they think that since they aren't accepted in real life, that if they work hard to build this quasi-character of themselves online that people also don't appreciate, then maybe they really shouldn't try anymore? 

in my experience, people who post that they are "done trying" or post something right after they get berrated or someone serves them a slice a truth that they can't handle, they're posting because they want attention. and honestly, that's not always a bad thing. everyone wants attention, however when it becomes repetitive and worrisome to friends, it can get very overdone. everyone wants attention, but there's a fine line between wanting attention, always attention-seeking, and searching for pity. for example, whenever i come back from a hiatus i usually post a blog that insinuates my hope for not losing friends because of my absence, and therefore [passive aggressively; i know, ew] i am asking for friends to comment and come into contact with me, because i am one of those humans who would rather be approached than to be the one approaching. 

one of my points are, that people should feel the need to reflect internally before they post blog after blog insinuating that they need help, that they can't take it anymore, that they're beyond saving, that they're at their breaking point, that they feel alone, that they're about to leave, yada yada----you've heard it all before, a thousand times over and repeated. im not gonna say no one cares, because certainly some of us do. but that's the problem. you're seeking attention from your friends so drastically, that it is worrisome; when you could honestly just kkt them or pm them if you need help. instead you need to make a big old show about it so EVERYONE knows, because boi do you up that attention. you want to feel like people care, that people know you're struggling and they feel bad for you. but that is so unhealthy guys. you're not helping your problems, your fueling them by seeking pity and validation for feelings that can be fixed in a healthier way. you're letting your ego and your need for attention grow, which honestly isn't going to help you at all during your career or adult life. in fact always seeking validation, support, a pat on the back, etc etc, for minor things that you perpetuate, will in fact hinder you in lots of aspects. how are you gonna handle things when situations that occur online and are F A K E happen in real life? your phony hundreds of "friends" on here aren't going to come coddle you. you're going to have to learn the hard way; which is identifying things that need to be fixed, and fixing them YOURSELF. same thing goes for your "ty" family that you come on here and post blogs about, talk about in rps, etc etc, looking for someone to validate how ty your family is. sometimes i wonder what people would do if they didn't have rpr or social media to "vent" about these things. 

ANOTHER point i'd like to make is that people need to just brush it off sometimes when they get called a , , , blah blah blah. even if you're told that everyday despite not doing anything that constitutes such ferocity. honestly, if you can take anything away from this irrelevant blog post, take the instance of the 'bad ' response that was seen above. when someone calls you these things......so what? you know, you're not hillary clinton who was called "just a nasty woman" by the now president of the united states. you're not a congresswoman who appears on national tv and gives an inspirational talk only to have her dress critiqued, rather than the actual content of her speech. you're not the woman who's about to become the australian prime minister and is told that they don't have a good grasp on what it's like to be a woman because “Anyone who has chosen to remain deliberately barren, has no idea about what life’s about.” [australian senator bill heffernan, im talking about u].

in fact, you aren't any of these powerful, influential, leading women being critiqued or drug unfairly through the mud:

“Michelle Obama, her project is obesity. And look at her big .” — Representative Jim Sensenbrenner, as reported by a bystander. (Mr. Sensenbrenner later apologized.)

“Did you see Nancy Pelosi on the floor? Complete disgust. If you can get through all the surgeries, there’s disgust.” — Senator Lindsey Graham, making a plastic surgery joke

“You’re more beautiful than you are intelligent.” — the former prime minister Silvio Berlusconi of Italy, to Rosy Bindi, an opposition member of Parliament

10 times you're not an influential, powerful woman who gets belittled constantly by people, even by your own gender. 98% of the time you are being called names by irrelevant people, who's grumblings are irrelevant. instead, tuck those insults away in your bra ladies, and take them out when you are the CEO, president, owner, writer, author, member of, whogivesa™ and laugh when you take a new look and realize the same person who said this about you, is now best-case-scenario, the manager of a burger king in arkansas. or a laughed at bigot who no one takes seriously. 

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