Girl Groups v. Boy Groups

I don't care what your preference is when it comes to k-pop, in regards to you prefering to listen to girl groups more over boy groups or vice versa. The thing that I can't stand is when people want to play these games of "they have it harder" or "all you care about is xyz." Girl groups and boy groups go through the same rigorous training to a degree but, beyond that, there's no way to compare them really. You can say who think can sing well and who can dance well but individually is one thing versus comparing groups as a whole and in such a general sense. There are things that I don't agree with like favoritism, such as the incident where whichever girl that was from one of the girl groups exposed her bra(?) because it was apart of their dance and people were bashing her and calling her a for it, openly, while they were saying it was okay for a guy to go shirtless. That's the stuff that I don't agree with but, in regards to everything else, your one girl group doesn't outshine one boy group just because you personally like them more and vice versa. As far as I'm concerned, these stupid ratings about how much an artist/group sells and whether or not they got number one doesn't matter either. Sure, it matters for the company but, in reality, it doesn't mean a thing. A lot of voting systems are rigged or get hacked one way or another and, in the end, winning anything just makes the group/artist and the company the represent fell good. I feel like I'm talking in circles but, to be realistic, it's natural to compare. It happens. But to call out one over the other for whatever reason and to see people thinking it's okay absolutely frustrates me. It infuriates me. If you are one of those people that like to bash other groups just because they aren't your favorite or feel the need to call out someone and tear them down just because you feel it's okay is honestly a sign that you need some guidance. I'm not going to cut corners. If you act like that and come around me with that, there's a high chance I will shut down the conversation harshly and not want to be bothered with you. Constructive criticism is one thing but when you feel it's okay to bash someone else for what they can or cannot do, regardless of whether you can even do it better or not, I personally feel that there is really something wrong with you. Of course not everyone is perfect but, like I said, there a line between constructive criticism and tearing someone down. I think that's all for my ranting...