‎ ‎ ‎ » r/LoveAdvice

@✮ moderator. imo, she could just return the gift n break it off. surely he kept a receipt n could ask for a refund? otherwise reuse the gift aha,,, easy problem solved :thumbs up:

@✮ moderator. meant for the guy, you could just ask if he really like/love her for real or it is just for show. ‘cause a gift worth $2,500 for third monthsary? it is really something i guess.

@✮ moderator. so you’re friend w both of them,,, then i guess first as an outsider who don’t know how the relationship go, you could first ask about why she wants to breakup. and if she is certain about it. as for the guy, you could ask

if she is not really thinking about it, and just spontaneously saying that at the moment bc of the heat i suggest maybe you could help both of them, by letting both part knows what their partners want ykyk doing it in silence being cupid ish.

if she is certain then there is nothing, you can just tell her to give back the gift if she doesnt want to get called as gold digger. it isn’t really necessary about what he thinks later, first return the gift n say goodbye after. if he asked her to keep it then it is her choice to keep it or not.

@✮ moderator. I mean, honestly, if the spark is no longer there, walking away is the best solution instead of pretending to fix a broken bridge. The fact that your friend had the idea to breaking up with his boyfriend and yet put it on hold because of an expensive gift speaks a lot. Provided that the boyfriend is rich and $2500 is just a small sum of money to him, then why bother to stay or give excuses as such. If you know your worth and you feel like the connection is not as 'strong' as it was before, conclude it nicely and be honest. And you can always return the gift so that people won't think that you are a gold digger, right?

[ example question, feel free to answer to this still! ]

r/LoveAdvice : My friend (26M) gave his girlfriend (23F) a really expensive gift ($2,500) for their 3rd monthsary. The girlfriend is also my friend and she told me she was planning to breakup with him but because of his present, she feels like she has been financially trapped to him. Will she look like a gold digger if she broke up with him now?