✦ would u rather?

it depends on the situation. for the first option, did i break up with my ex in good terms or bad terms? how long has it been since i last saw him? is he trying to get back at me? there's a lot of factors to look at for that i'd rather pick the lesser of two evils. i already treat my bestfriend as a part of my family. so, it's option two for me. it's much easier to... digest, i suppose. though, i'd have to find a much, much, much younger bestfriend. (pause) my sister is eight.

Depends, really. But I'd have to opt for the first option. If my ex and I ended things amicably, I wouldn't mind if my brother dates my ex. If he's happier, then that is what matters more to me than any residual, unresolved hang-ups with my ex. With the second option, if my brother and my best friend decide to end things or even if they're caught up in an argument, I'd hate to have to be the middle man /or/ worse, pick sides between two people I really care about.

considering the kind of guy my last ex was… i’d much rather have my sibling date my best friend.

I'd rather have my sibling date my best friend. If I'd been intimate with my ex and my sibling had them next, that would genuinely make me crash out. Good thing I'm an only child.

Hot take but I'd rather have my sibling date my ex (so we can share the trauma) because I really don't want to hear about my siblings being intimate with someone. And yes, I talk to my girl bestie about stuff like that

I'd rather have my brother date my bestfriend. Might make me cringe the first few times but it will be bearable as time goes. The former option sounds so atrocious. I shudder at the thought.

coming from someone who totally has a sibling or two, i choose the second option.

who would even pick the first option? that's insanity. obviously, i'd rather my sibling dates my best friend! i love my sibling, and i love my best friend, so if they're in love, that's a win for me! . . . but i don't want to see them kiss or anything. that's going to change my worldview. i'll have to close my eyes for that one.

sibling dating my best friend, period. because one—having two of my favorite people in the world like each other? bliss. fingers crossed they never break up, though; that'd be awkward. and two—i don't want my sloppy seconds anywhere near my bestie, hello!?

honestly, none. both are terrible situations... but if i had to choose, 'sibling date my best friend'. because i'd be curious to know what my friend would see in my sister. he must have been blind or desperate.