✦ would u rather?

I'd rather have my sibling date my best friend. If I'd been intimate with my ex and my sibling had them next, that would genuinely make me crash out. Good thing I'm an only child.

Hot take but I'd rather have my sibling date my ex (so we can share the trauma) because I really don't want to hear about my siblings being intimate with someone. And yes, I talk to my girl bestie about stuff like that

I'd rather have my brother date my bestfriend. Might make me cringe the first few times but it will be bearable as time goes. The former option sounds so atrocious. I shudder at the thought.

hot take but i don't think i mind my brother dating any of my exes. i've broken up on good terms with most of them and, hey, if they can make my brother happy, that's all that matters to me. my best friend, though? no, he can't take them. he can make his own friends and date his own best friend, I'm not sharing mine with him.

coming from someone who totally has a sibling or two, i choose the second option.

who would even pick the first option? that's insanity. obviously, i'd rather my sibling dates my best friend! i love my sibling, and i love my best friend, so if they're in love, that's a win for me! . . . but i don't want to see them kiss or anything. that's going to change my worldview. i'll have to close my eyes for that one.

sibling dating my best friend, period. because one—having two of my favorite people in the world like each other? bliss. fingers crossed they never break up, though; that'd be awkward. and two—i don't want my sloppy seconds anywhere near my bestie, hello!?

honestly, none. both are terrible situations... but if i had to choose, 'sibling date my best friend'. because i'd be curious to know what my friend would see in my sister. he must have been blind or desperate.