Face Chasing and User Chasing?

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Authorhologram
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What makes people go after a specific character or user  in roleplays? I understand that if another character is from the same group or company or they have actually met and have some type of connection it's a lot easier to talk to them and roleplay. What I don't understand is why that often entails only wanting to talk to or be around them and acting as if other people don't exist. I know most people have favorites and characters they really like and prefer over others. But limiting yourself to the same faces, doesn’t that get dull and boring after a while?  Isn’t the entire purpose of joining a public roleplay to talk to and interact with other people? If a character I happen to really like or has some connection to mine ends up being in a roleplay, yeah I'll talk to them, but I don't sit and chase after or only talk to them. The same thing goes for people who are clearly friends or have history together and make it very known. Again, I get that the familiarity makes it easier to to approach and interact with certain people, but why does it usually end up meaning you exclude or hardly pay attention to other people? What exactly is the point of being in a public roleplay if you only intend on interacting with specific characters and friends or acquaintances? I know some people probably don't realize that they're doing it, but a lot of people also make it very obvious that they intend on chasing after and interacting with someone specific. I'm just really curious about what makes people do this in public places instead of just making a private roleplay for their friends or pm roleplaying if they want to roleplay a certain couple or as certain characters.

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chikookiehope 4 years ago
I tend to forget the other members of the group of my fc are there since I typically don't look for them. I only notice if they're often in ooc, but thats about it.

Regarding user-chasing, im often nervous people think i am because I become very friendly with others quick, to the point I sound like I knew them for awhile.
Or, the ones that I generally have good rps with are the only ones that tend to not drop me (i have linked trackers too so I always check if others replied, but typically 3 weeks-1 month pass and I give up).

There are also some users where I just kind of refuse to rp with. Mostly because they will ghosy or leave the rp without a word. So I never rp with them because I know it'll be a waste.

Its frustrating all around tbh.
levanter 4 years ago
imo user chasing is only bad when its clear users are only looking to rp with each other, not anyone else
like.. in the past me and my friend would join rps together, sometimes to be together, but its not like either of us were opposed to rping with other people. if anything, we rped with other ppl more often fjsbjhbfs
but i definitely get it. its rough when all people do is only look at each other. i can understand joining public rps bc its more fun to be in public than to have a private, but at the same time if you're only rping with each other,,, whats the point jfshbjh idk its wishy washy bc not everyone is like the lump sum (aka not everyone is Only rping with one person when they join, if they join with someone else) but that gets overlooked often bc So Many people are very narrow sighted, if that makes sense
iamthoticus 4 years ago
Or when the same two users join many, many rps and you immediately know theyre gonna end up together.
51730e75925c7e1dca74 4 years ago
Facts it gets annoying .
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