My step sister has a lot of trauma...as do I. But I have worked through it, and she refuses to touch it. Now she is self consumed and believes everyone is out to get her. She is inconsiderate of our combine family's needs and prioritizes her own. She is not consciously trying to hurt...but that doesn't change her actions and behaviors toward us as being wrong. She targets us instead of the source of her Truma...
POINT IS: she made my step dad dog sit, even though he told her about the special dinner with my aunt. The dinner was planned for months. My sister said "I'm coming down" two days ago. She expects her dad and our fam to stop everything for her care.
She KNEW about the plans, and yet made him stay to dog sit while she ate and drank with old friends. -.-
Its toxic. I love my step dad, and I'm not okay with this behavior from his own daughter. Now he's paying the price for my choice to get her to go get her dog, because she won't talk with me directly and let me take the brunt of her
she won't work on her . I can't make her. But I don't want my family to be a doormat to please her.
its been a really hard day. I. NEED. SUPPORT :3:
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