i'm just gonna be real.

i'm so tired of caring about y'alls (sometimes nonexistent) beef with each other. either confront mfs head on, or go about your business. i get everyone has history and , but it's not my responsibility or job to give a about you not liking x person because of x reasons. even if i'm an admin. and ngl lowkey feels a little manipulative when mfs pull up like "i have beef with so and so, so you shouldn't/should do this or that" when you are an admin. like what happens between y'all should stay between y'all, so please leave me the out of it. 😭 this is something that i've been thinking about for a while (years, even) off and on. like this is my hobby and i'm just here to write fr omg.

if you can't exist in a space with someone, i get it, and no one is forcing you to. just ignore a and do your own thing, or don't be in that space with them. it costs 0 dollars to be a civil person. it also wouldn't hurt to confront mfs when you feel they've wronged you or done something to you or wtv so they know how you feel and how to change . as long as you go into it with a problem solving attitude rather than one based on attacking a mf, you should be able to reach some kind of reasonable conclusion. and even if you don't, at least you tried. like damn 😂 you'd think this would just be a thing we do as adults but it's not.

tired of y'alls old beef especially because some mfs do actually learn and grow from their mistakes once made aware of them. you don't have to give a a chance if you don't want to, i get it, but i wish more people were willing to think about that at least. especially because we all have ed up in one way or another.

i think the longer i stay here, the more exhausting it becomes to try keeping up with who doesn't like whom and who can't be in the same area as whom and whatever the like.......... i did not sign up for this. handle your own lmao.

keep thinking about this every time i run into it but also thinking about it because i was reading tea blogs on tumblr about bull like this. but anyway. that's all i wanted to say. had to get this off my chest.