actual rp question

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AuthorSugarly

Created Nov 11, 2024 16:12:40

so like- sorry not sorry for this dusty looking blog

y'know how there's an age limit to people you're allowed to rp just due to things that they might be exposed to also rping as a child and being weird when you're an adult is unethical blah blah y'know that stuff

but what about dating age limit? i don't know if i should or shouldn't be weirded out by some people rping and their character's getting together and having a large age gap but most specifically anyone like playing 20 and under matching up with someone's muse who is like 25 or like 27 is a little WEIRD to me idk idk.... like i know some people are like "age is just a number" well y'know JAIL is just a place but no there's a clear line that should indicate that's not- THAT'S NOT RIGHT. now the example ages i showed may not sound like that big of a leap but i was listening to this reddit story about the guy (29) dating this 21 year old girl. She practically begged him to get snap chat saying the pictures disappear or some and he thought he was gonna get risque pictures but she was sending like "a day in the life" type Y'KNOW NORMAL SNAP CHAT STUFF and he realized he didn't get it. He didn't understand the use of Snapchat. That he was too "old" to understand that type of stuff. That's what brings me to my next point. WHAT WOULD YOU HAVE IN COMMON WITH SOMEONE IN A LARGE AGE GAP?? i heard that somewhere there was wooyoung dating a baekhyun? LIKE WHERE DO YOU GET ALONG IN THAT????

anyways

just a small rant question and ick.

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xsoulx 1 month ago

Tmi of the day, I went out with this girl one time. Our age gap was of 4 years I believe- (We were both in our 20’s) but we were at such DIFFERENT stages of life that… she was in her last year of college and I was in the middle of moving out of home. I was starting “adult life” and she was still worried about her tests and stuff. Of course it didn’t work, we only went out a couple times and I’m telling you, never again. Now that’s real life.

As for rp, I had characters in large age gap relationships and while everything depends from person to person. What bothers me (and I just saw it recently in a rp I was in) is when the older character pressure or PREY exclusively on very young characters or the ones that are very “bottom” looking. There are users that always go with very “buff dom daddy” looking characters and are trying to get super touchy with the cutesy-young ones even if they seem uncomfortable or not really into it.

I wanted to write a blog about this type of behavior just yesterday. But idk :/ didn’t want to stir the pot ig… but yeah I understand your point.

saigon 1 month ago

now, i don’t agree with large age gaps for obvious reasons, but the argument of “what do you have in common with someone in a large age gap” doesn’t exactly work. i have friends that are roughly 20-40 years older than me and they’re some of my closest friends. we have plenty in common, and sometimes it’s not even things you have in common but the company/personalities. i’m not gonna get along with someone that can’t handle jokes or teasing. it really just comes down to maturity levels and personality types at the end of the day. you can find something in common with anyone if you really try, it might not be something hugely relevant in your life but it’s still common. ☝️ i could almost quote this one mlp episode but i won’t HAHAH

Unholy 1 month ago

I think it really depends on the person in the culture but personally, I don’t see the benefit of large age gap especially when the gaps are so close to minority. No, I have heard of healthy relationships of people who are in their 20s and 30s and up who are 8 to 9 sometimes 10 your age gaps, but they’re already both adults. When you have someone who is barely not a minor and you have someone who is far older, that’s when things are still inappropriate because the person who is younger is just becoming an adult. That’s grooming and it’s gross. I agree with you. I know personally when I was dating in the real world that I didn’t want to date anybody who was more than five years my senior or five years younger. I wanted to be able to communicate and see eye to eye. No, obviously that doesn’t happen for everyone. Some people can communicate and see eye to eye and have that age gap but I just think it’s really suspicious and weird when you’re dating someone really super young when you’re clearly an adult..