➳ match 10

@➳ p. chaeyoung hey! looks like we did. i really don’t, no time for preamble, we’ll learn a lot from each other right off the bat anyway. i was looking at the questions and i’m kinda glad you got that one… some of them are very… strong to say the least.

i think i’m in a similar boat as you. my job isn’t nearly as glamorous as i just work at a local bar as a bartender or a mixologist if i wanna sound fun, and i often work nights. sometimes i don’t get home until 5-6am. it’s difficult working around that with dates and such, since i’m usually working during prime dating hours. hence why i’m here i guess. plus i’m also socializing and around a lot of people so i think i’m the same. i also really appreciate communication— which won’t be perfect at first but speaking to one another bluntly but respectfully… i find that super attractive, for lack of better words. i think a lot of potential problems and issues can be sub-sided if communication (and trust) is placed at the forefront of things. i think the two kind of go hand in hand. i gotta trust you in order for me to be vulnerable and communicative, right?

the next question i got was a little boring but might be a little fun depending on your answer — do you have any siblings? i’ve got two younger brothers, myself. i am not super close to them though, but we were close growing up. i am 7 years older than the youngest and 5 years of the other one, so i suppose it makes sense we’re not super close. i saw family closeness was another question but you don’t have to answer. just thought i might.

@➳ b. baekhyun hey, it seems like we've been matched! i hope you don't mind, but i'm going to jump straight into a question from the wheel. apologies in advance, it's a strong one. the question is: what do you need most from a partner?

for this question, i think i'd have to go with trust. i work as a fashion stylist in the entertainment industry, so i'm going to be surrounded by celebrities more often than not. for work and networking, but also for socializing since my clients are my friends as well. this can cause insecurity for some people, and while i understand why, i don't think it's feasible in the long run. additionally, i am someone who does not like the idea of severe codependency. i want us to have our own lives, goals, ambitions, friends, etc. but actively choosing to make time for each other and to grow together in a sense. however, i know some prefer physical intimacy rather than emotional, so not being together a lot of the time can cause trust issues. i think these are just a few reasons why i think trust is the most essential thing i'd like a partner to bring to the table. what about you?

@➳ p. chaeyoung @➳ b. baekhyun ➳ round one, begin!