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So you’ll keep trying to portray an image even if it means you’re not being yourself..? Will that make you happy hyung? You say red flag one more time I’m throwing a pillow at you~ *laughs softly shaking my head* ooo milkshake~ or a float! He may like that.. that’s a cute idea hyung. *reaches over giving your arm a squeeze* I have read a bunch of romance books probably to many to count so if you’d like I’d be happy to help with pointers or if you don’t know how to read a situation id be happy to help there too and give my opinion. But hyung i really think just being yourself will be great, you’re amazing kind welcoming sweet and funny, anyone would be lucky to have you. You won’t look like an idiot I promise, I’ll help in any way I can to make sure you get me British dream boat~
"Well... maybe so, but-" Christian pauses to sip his quickly cooling coffee. "I don't want to come off as crazy, not even in a cute way. I have an image to portray, not just within this community but to a potential love interest. What does that say in the long wrong, someone who appears crazy but is also handling an entire community? Tellin' you, red flag. Also... pleas-" A free hand reaches toward his face while a laugh escapes;"That is not going to work. I already had a plan I'd greet him differently because he's not Korean. He may not even know what a boba tea is. Maybe I'll offer him a milkshake or something, my favorite, see his opinion. AS for you, it's not you in general, its the age. All of us are not experts in romance and how to approach in our twenties unless you've been speed dating all of your teens, and you've read a bunch of romance books. I just mean haven't been alive as long to know. the belief is, if you've been alive longer, you supposedly have experienced more. That's not to say the reverse can't be true, but I don't want to look like an idiot. I want him to know I'm mature, capable, could take good care of him, and I have to check him too, he's got to be able to take care of me. I need a MAN who knows what he wants out of life. and.. you know.. hopefully I'm in it.." Christian subconsciously preens by touching his face and fixing his hair.
You’re adorable hyung when you gush like this.. you’d have to start small, I know when your in the presence of someone you admire your brain stops thinking yeah but that doesn’t mean it’ll be a bad thing or you’ll come off as crazy or anything. He may enjoy it actually, sometimes crazy is cute you know. I can help you figure out ways that if he does show up you can try to keep from seeming like your coming on to strong. We can practice I can tape his face over mine and use a British accent and you can practice what you’d say? Also.. I didn’t take offense to that till you said no offense and now I’m not sure if I should feel offended or not. I may be almost ten years younger than you but I don’t lack experience~
"Well.. to answer your first question, I think it's good. I hope it is. It's not as in, a shut out shut down, more of like I just.. can't.. think rationally? I admire him, and he's so good looking, of course I would be fanboying on maximum. In the same breath I don't want to miss my chance, I've been chronically known to come on TOO strong. Too strong is a huge turn off. the clash of how to express 'My god I'm interested' but also 'I'm not crazy, or a red flag person, please like me'. That uh.. a delicate balance. I don't have my age to hide behind with lack of experience here, no offense. I'm thirty-four."
Is that a good shut down or bad shut down..? Hey emotions make us loose all ability to have common sense hyung it’s only natural and what do you mean hard time being yourself? Your pretty freaking great if I do say so myself
Christian sighs;"Oh.. it's so dumb, but i will say if he does show up I may completely shut down. I was having a hard time being myself I just, what is common sense?"
Nice five hours that’s great! I’m stuck at 4 can’t seem to get more than that. *sips on my tea frowning* I’m sorry about your dream that I hate bad dreams the brains supposed to shut down at night not continue with the ery
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