If you were made to feel unimportant as a child,
there's a good chance this is a feeling that gets triggered often for you as an adult- even in situations that have nothing to do with your importance AND with people who truly do value you.
Fixing Others
People Pleasing
Co-Dependency
External Validation Needed
Living on High Alert
Fear of Abandonment
De-Prioritizing Own Needs
Need to Prove Themselves
Tolerating Abusive Behavior
Attracting Narcissistic Partners
Difficulty Setting Boundaries
Sometimes my husband and I ignore each other….
And believe it or not, it’s completely healthy and extremely normal.
After a long day of working, cooking, cleaning and taking care of our kids, the last thing we should ever be “forced” to do is another task at the end of the night.
And if you want to admit it or not, marriage is HARD WORK.
Some nights we want to do our own thing. He will play video games and I will watch Gossip girl.
Some nights we want to do those things to together.
But the last thing we will ever do is force one another to do something we don’t want to do just for the sake of “spending time together”
Because I rather have quality time then forced time.
Taking care of kids is stressful enough, and at the end of the day you are your own people.
So just remember, It’s okay to do things without one another, but around one another.
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- If you have any questions or concerns about how to apply or about the rules or FAQ, don’t hesitate to ask, I’m happy to help!