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OOC talk only! don't role play in here at all, not even crack. No need for brackets.
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 2 hours ago
you did good today!! ♥
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 2 hours ago
rest well love-y!!
Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ 2 hours ago
finally home *sticks to my bed and sighs happily*

man another overstimulating day ;u; going shopping before Christmas....ugh and then a party event orz
SWEET SWEET BED I MISS YOU
Ω┊choi chanhee ⁿᵉʷ 7 hours ago
Not sure yet I usually just ink whatever comes to mind right then and there. Just little doodles basically over my hand and arms when I’m bored. But it’s been months since I’ve tatted myself and I’m craving more ink.
Ω┊choi chanhee ⁿᵉʷ 7 hours ago
I think it’s time to give myself a new tattoo :3
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 8 hours ago
i think people are resting, gaming or with families as holidays approach. do not stress. ♥ ill tag you in a few hours about your reserve, just ask for an extension. no trouble.
Ω┊han jisung ʰᵃⁿ 8 hours ago
Amd now I'm talking.to.myself
Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ 10 hours ago
Makes notes
Ω┊choi chanhee ⁿᵉʷ 12 hours ago
Christmas snowflakes!!!
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 13 hours ago
Test. ⋆꙳•̩̩͙❅*̩̩͙‧͙ ‧͙*̩̩͙❆ ͙͛ ˚₊⋆
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 13 hours ago

1. **Be Mindful of Your Language**: Avoid using words like "obviously" or "clearly," as they can come across as condescending. Instead, frame your statements in a way that acknowledges the listener's perspective.
2. **Use Inclusive Language**: Instead of stating the obvious as a fact, consider phrasing it as a shared observation. For example, saying "We all know how hot it is today" can foster a sense of camaraderie rather than alienation.
3. **Ask Questions**: Instead of making a statement, ask questions that lead to the obvious conclusion. This engages the listener and allows them to arrive at the point themselves, which can be more respectful.
4. **Provide Context**: When stating something that may seem obvious, provide context or reasoning behind it. This not only clarifies your intent but also shows that you value the listener's understanding.
5. **Be Direct but Polite**: It's important to be straightforward in your communication. However, ensure that your tone remains polite and considerate. This balance helps convey your message without offending anyone.
6. **Empathize with Your Audience**: Recognize that what may be obvious to you might not be to others. Showing empathy can help you tailor your message in a way that is more considerate of their knowledge and feelings.
7. **Practice Active Listening**: Before stating the obvious, listen to what others are saying. This can help you gauge their understanding and tailor your response accordingly, making it more relevant and less redundant.
By applying these lessons, you can enhance your communication skills and ensure that your messages are received positively, even when discussing the obvious.

[] https://i.imgur.com/CEy2Efh.jpg
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 13 hours ago
In social work you learn to engage people differently. I thought this was really educational, and on a format where communication is scarce or not there, this chart might be educational to some!
Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ 15 hours ago
gonna be mia later today

trying to catch up on replies ;u; before I need to go
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 23 hours ago
Yes. That was project Zomboid
α┊bang chan ᶜʰʳᶦˢ [H] 23 hours ago
Idk something with mods
Ω┊choi chanhee ⁿᵉʷ 1 day ago
Pz? Project zomboid? I don’t remember any other games we talked about;;
α┊bang chan ᶜʰʳᶦˢ [H] 1 day ago
What game were y'all talking about earlier?
α┊bang chan ᶜʰʳᶦˢ [H] 1 day ago
Ugh so much work
Ω┊choi chanhee ⁿᵉʷ 1 day ago
Babies are adorable *^*
α┊ahn hyoseop 1 day ago
*make
α┊ahn hyoseop 1 day ago
I believe he'd made a good father, too.

sweet dreams though, lovey.
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 1 day ago

https://youtu.be/KGx4HvxLfME?si=qQ8HNSavm9lnFk40

i seen this while i prepare for bed and now christian has the sudden urge to be a father
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 1 day ago
nothing quite gives me the warm ooey gooey than to see writing partners communicating with eachother. im a softie and it shows.
❀ α┊christian yu ᴰᴾᴿᴵᴬᴺ [A] 1 day ago
Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ 1 minute ago Reply
hehe cuties UuU
Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ 1 day ago
hehe cuties UuU
β┊byun baekhyun 1 day ago
@α┊ok taecyeon Heh it's okay. Sleepy time for us all~
α┊ok taecyeon 1 day ago
@β┊byun baekhyun I second that - - I'll work on my reply soon but my mind is mush because i'm a sleepy cat
β┊byun baekhyun 1 day ago
@Ω┊seon yein ˢᵘⁿʸᵒᵘˡ It's okay!! I'm head to bed soon too ^^

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Unholy [A] 13 hours ago
(*≧∀≦)ノ Welcome home flowers! Please reserve with birth name + stage name if they have one. ♪
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sparkle_ 3 days ago
could I reserve ok taecyeon and kim seokwoo? i've upvoted. thanks!
KPOPAuntie 6 days ago
Hi! May I please have Ji Changmin a.k.a Q from The Boyz? Thank you! ♥
Unholy [A] 1 week ago
(*≧∀≦)ノ Welcome home flowers! Please reserve with birth name + stage name if they have one. ♪
- If you have any questions or concerns about how to apply or about the rules or FAQ, don’t hesitate to ask, I’m happy to help!
gotohellu 1 week ago
Can i get do kyungsoo?
euphoria_ 1 week ago
Yang Jeongin (i.n), please :)
moonkitten 1 week ago
yeo hwanwoong of oneus pls?
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bangchans_wife 2 weeks ago
Hi! I would really really love to join! But I'm not sure who to join as- Please help T^T
ashflower 2 weeks ago
hi hi, after consideration: may i please request kwak jiseok (gaon)?
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